Boys are way to oblivious to notice our waist size, how much makeup we’re wearing, which colors make our eyes pop, what brand of shoes we have on, which designer made the perfume we bathed in before we left the house, or the fact that our bodies don’t look like Adriana Lima or Miranda Kerr. Boys couldn’t care the fuck less. 

All they care about is the fact that you’re a girl. Plane and simple, black and white. I don’t know ANY boy that would pick a superficial bitch over a down to earth, honest girl.

So why try so dam hard? You don’t need to cake on make up, or go on pointless diets just to loose some weight that you don’t have to spare. Why strive to be perfect when the right boy will love every single one of your imperfections? Learn to love yourself before someone falls in love with the person you’re trying to be, not the beautiful person that you already are. 

I’ve been feeling really insecure about my body lately. it’s really dumb, that’s not me but it just won’t get out of my head. It’s making me angry and unhappy and i need to stop putting myself down.